Irritating how girls are passed on just like chewing gum by boys. Worse, those boys are just in one circle. I just got home from a Family Reunion and I saw my cousin with the girl who happens to be his ex but at the same time, soon-to-be gf. They were together a few years back. Sadly, their relationship failed. After a while, this girl became my cousin's friend's girlfriend. When I learned that, I felt really bad for my cousin. Though he keeps saying the bro code: bros before hoes, I can't picture him being perfectly convenient in their scenario. Take this: He was crazy in love with this girl that he even made a bet that they they'd be the last couple standing in the clan. Crazy I know. How the hell then can he accept the fact that this girl is now dating his friend, FYI, really close friend? How did he manage to see them hug, kiss and do other PDA stuff? Anyway, according to him it was fine. Eventually he found a way to let the girl go back to her original home, where she truly belongs(his perspective). I don't know how he did it, but I wana say congratulations to my cousin, sorry to his friend and 'do good this time' to the girl. Now the 'friend' gets to be in the awkward position.
I guess my cousin really loves the girl. It's cute how in my cousin's story, it's the guy who turned out to play the martyr role. Does this still happen now? Or is my cousin the last one to play that role? I hope he gets to be the last one. Stop stupidity people, no martyrs please, haha sorry cousin, you know my stand on this issue.
I am happy for you anyway, I'm just a solid anti "pass the girl/boy to a friend" concept. My guy period, your guy period. My ex period, your ex period. My trash period, your dirt period.
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ReplyDeleteIndeed girls should be respected and not passed on like chewing gum. However, the scenario you've outlined doesn't really show that the guy gave the girl away. If indeed these two friends pass the girl between themselves when they get tired of her then they should be condemed to hell. But you can't forget that the girl still has a say in this and she should know better than to fall for their tricks.
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